Do you want to depend on what you see?

“The things that you see may not always be true”

This is the good old saying that I realized now only. According to this the things that we see may not be actually true or even it may not be the whole idea of what we see any way. So when ever you see some thing just don’t jump in to conclusions. A most common mistake done by us is always trust on what we see and then we tend to, not go in depth of that situation which the truth might be totally some thing else. Then when it becomes too late we might discover the truth but then we would have missed the train; this will result in regression and it may even lead you to the path ways of depression.

 

But why go in to depression, why blame yourself for the rest of your life when you can prevent all the losses and scolds by just practicing some tolerance and devoting some of your time to think about a particular situation?? When a particular thing happens, its human nature to suspect the others but is it practical now?? In the old days the people in the society used to blame young women for witch craft and then those young women were burned to death. This was done just for the complaint of one person even, if a person has a bad impression on his or her female neighbors, that person can simply accuse that neighbor for practicing which craft. Then there was no trial or a hearing carried out for the woman to prove her innocence. The woman was then dragged to the middle of the town and burned in to ashes. In this way many families loosed a member of their family.

This is the situation that we do to our friends, family or even a person you meet along side of the road when you simply go for what you see and judge that person from what you see. Although we might not burn them to ashes, (it’s really not practical) we might do them an injustice by trusting and judging them based upon our sight. But this can also happen in the other way because when we trust a person too much that person may not be the good person we imagined him or her to be. That person may be a devil wearing a human skin.

 

So be careful when you judge a person and don’t trust or rely on what you see. There is always too sides of a story.

Love:mystery of life

1. There are at least two people in this world that you would die for.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.

3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.

4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don’t like you.

5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

6. You mean the world to someone.

7. You are special and unique.

8. Someone that you don’t even know exists loves you.

9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.

10. When you think the world has turned its back on you take another look.

11. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.

I don’t know what made me post this but in a way i feel that this can be true. after all life is mystery which never ends and keeps on repeating its self over and over again. in this world almost every human being wants to be loved and also love, but due to some reasons some may think that love is just not their cup of tea which is so not true because somewhere in life’s journey we will have to give in to love no matter what whether its for our parents,brothers and sisters,partners, friends or even a sweet little puppy walking down your street. one can run away from love or even say it doesn’t exists but the truth is is there is no love in this world it would have perished long time ago.

Living life the way you want

Well one can say that living life the way you want is always not that hard and it can be done easily but according to what I think life is not a bed of roses and its not easy as one can say. The main reason for this may be that we are not living alone in this world and we while living in this world keep on building relationships with the society as well as with your fellow companions. We have relationships that takes different faces have been given different names such as love, friendship, the relationship among parents and children…etc. some times I wonder why we have build up so many relationships but later only I understood that this world exists among the strength of those relationships.

When u want to live life the way u want to u can always do it without any hesitation but you will have to ignore almost all the relationships you have lost and all the hearts you have broken. When you fall in love you will have to devote yourself to your partner and then if you go and live life with all the freedom you want to there might be conflicts between you and your partner. Of course you should have the liberty to live your own life I have to objection toward it but there should be an instance that you must count your partners feeling too, by doing this only will a stable relationship can be maintained.

When my boy friend started putting all the restrictions to me and keep on jumping to my stuff at first I got so irritated I scolded him more often but because he did that I have been rescued from some major problems that even I dint know was coming towards me. After getting to know that I have been rescued from such problems I started thinking; then I understood that living with all the restrictions and rules might be a headache for me at times but it’s also and blessing as well as it’s a guardian angel.

So live your life the way you want but respect others feeling as well as know your limits.

First blog in my entire life

Well I really have no idea of what to write over here. First of all I want to thank my sis Rosh and bro-in-law Chanux, for encouraging me to start my own blog. As Rosh told me blogging is an awesome experience that everyone should experience.

Well according to what I think blogging is an awesome experience that anyone can try to express their thoughts and express what they feel about the ongoing stuff in the world.

Well it was my sis pal Rosh who influenced me to start my first blog but then I got really scared because I really didn’t know anything about blogging and I was not a good writer as well. But I kept on commenting on Rosh’s blog posts and then automatically the desire to open a blog came to my mind. And by commenting on Rosh’s posts I discovered that blogging can greatly help you to put your feelings in to writing. Also I should thank my “future Bro-in-law” Chanux for encouraging Rosh as well as me to start a new blog.

So this is my first blog although I am not a good writer I hope you will enjoy it.
Please don’t mind the mistakes. hee hee