Well one can say that living life the way you want is always not that hard and it can be done easily but according to what I think life is not a bed of roses and its not easy as one can say. The main reason for this may be that we are not living alone in this world and we while living in this world keep on building relationships with the society as well as with your fellow companions. We have relationships that takes different faces have been given different names such as love, friendship, the relationship among parents and children…etc. some times I wonder why we have build up so many relationships but later only I understood that this world exists among the strength of those relationships.
When u want to live life the way u want to u can always do it without any hesitation but you will have to ignore almost all the relationships you have lost and all the hearts you have broken. When you fall in love you will have to devote yourself to your partner and then if you go and live life with all the freedom you want to there might be conflicts between you and your partner. Of course you should have the liberty to live your own life I have to objection toward it but there should be an instance that you must count your partners feeling too, by doing this only will a stable relationship can be maintained.
When my boy friend started putting all the restrictions to me and keep on jumping to my stuff at first I got so irritated I scolded him more often but because he did that I have been rescued from some major problems that even I dint know was coming towards me. After getting to know that I have been rescued from such problems I started thinking; then I understood that living with all the restrictions and rules might be a headache for me at times but it’s also and blessing as well as it’s a guardian angel.
So live your life the way you want but respect others feeling as well as know your limits.
you have a nice idea about life
thank you
I’m so happy to find your blog
err.. i am blank wayo… no idea what to say
But there should always b a LIMIT when it comes to controlling ur partner…
There r 2 sides of this topic. I as an individual hate wen people over control me… coz they don’t knw hw I feel when she/he put restrictions on me for stupid reasons. They r being selfish at least for a moment…
n another point came to my mind just nw… hw do u feel wen ur partner neva listens to u bt he/she wants u to listen to them??? Isn’t that soooooooo rude…???
@ rosh ya may be there might be instances that u seemed to get depressed when your partner want u to listen to him rather than he listen to u but remember in a true relationship their always must be tolerance. well in such instances you can always try talking to your partner.
well this is nice,i dint knew u can write like this,good stuff keep it up
even though we try to live the way we want,it’s kind of a war with our parents,partner & ect…have to fight all the time to get what we want.
i personally believe we have right to do what we like bez this our life,bt it’s up to you to decide whether it’s right or wrong.if they got to knw it’s wrong they hv right to tell it or put some restrictions when we become rude.it doesn’t mean they want to control
us,
if we got this kind of situation y don’t u talk with them & solve,sometimes it wont give the real solution at least u can share ure feelings with thm without live ure cave,
but most important thing that i must tell u!!!!!!!!
1 st we must understand ourself well & thn our parents or partner
but the truth is women thinks man must understand them,& man thinks women understand thm,when it comes to end point no one will understand?????????????
so it’s not easy to live the way we want until we become independent,
do u think we can be independent without them ?????????????no way
al the best
take care
bye
Quotes about love & relationships are relative to the time. Your opinion will be changed soon.
You won’t love anything much longer once it become a burden to you.
However love,relationships & etc. etc. are musts in a “HEALTHY” persons life.
I believe,
“Love is pain in the bank”.
And one thing more…
“The last day of the first month whis which I start to feel my girl don’t try to understand me; is the last day of my love”
:-S I’m not gonna say anything. I was never a good advisor in such situations :-S